I need relationship advice can you help?

Situation: Sense the first of the month we have had snow dumped on us and it put us out of work for a week causing delays in our supplies for work as well as money to be made and making stress go through the roof. Now, we are having to hustle and break our necks to make back the money we lost due to weather and so forth and have no time but to get up in the morning, shower, eat, go to work, eat, go to bed (to sleep). That is it. The intimacy is non existent. It is either we do not have time, we are tired, we are busy. No matter what there is always something and it gets pushed aside. Today my husband told me that I put a mark on the truck because I got some grit on it from where they grit the road and you get it on your shoes. (crossed my legs and my foot touched the radio console) I still can not see it but he insists that it is there and that I did it (even though it is a second hand truck) I get all kinds of pissy because he is more concerned (in my opinion) with a mark on the truck than he is about our relationship. I try to tell him how I feel and he thinks I am jealous of the truck. I try to tell him what is wrong and he just does not get it. How can I tell him in other words that I have not used that I want intimacy. I mean, what am I saying wrong here?